You forgot about a huge variable in this whole scenario which is financial stability and independence.

Men and women (but especially men) want to feel like they have a solid financial foundation on which to start a relationship. An “Overwatch” subscription is cheaper than going out to a nice restaurant with your significant other - put simply, dating is expensive.

Many men simply don’t have the economic means to court a woman, and so they opt to stay home, binge on porn and conspiracy theories, and otherwise extricate themselves from society.